Saturday, November 28, 2009

Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white f

I often search various media forms and the images that are presented as sexy and beautiful are white women? Recently, the beauty of Asian and Hispanic women are properly being recognized; however, does anyone ever notice that these women usually exhibit white/western aesthetics? It is evident in African American culture that the women seem to be dissatisfied with their general appearence:Evident by the use of "European Silky" hair weaves and colored contacts. There is nothing wrong with trying to enhance one's appeal; however, it always seems to lean towards an European ideal.This troubles me. For example, we all know Tyra Banks is beautiful, but could it be possible that society deems her as such because of certain "perceived" Caucasion characteristics; after all, she was the first and only black model to have graced the cover of Sports Illustrated and to be rewarded a lucrative contract with Victoria Secret. I've also read that Vogue's profits decrease when Black models are used. Why



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Well, first you have to take into account the dominant group.



If you take a look at Black-White relations, the power has always went to the Whites and the Blacks were either oppressed, enslaved, or devalued. There has always been this belief that if you want to be valuable and admired, you have to be white.



It's an awful, awful result of white oppressiveness.



Now take into account that aesthetics results from cultural acceptance. Isolated African tribes LOATHE the appearance of the white person. It's hideous. They look like their insides were turned out. Ghostly. Dead. So unappealing.



But they're isolated so they've never had to accept white power. They don't experience many white people -- and their culture does not have to accept them as the source of freedom.



But urban third and first world countries that the English and French once ruled all dominated the culture. It was difficult for anyone darker than white to be recognized as a person.



Now although racist superiority is not taught like it once was, our parents and their parents all experienced some of these teachings. Even if they did not pass down these teachings, we learn these lessons from interactions.



White men still, overall, have the power AND they are trying to keep it this way. Minority groups are usually under-represented in positions of power. Lessons do not have to be verbally taught in order for them to be accepted.



Everyone likes to believe they are valuable and everyone wants at least the opportunity for power: the most oppressed group-- black men-- realize on some level that the light women are associated with money and power and light children are associated with opportunity.



White men control the media and they definitely encourage this nonsense.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Needs to be more unmixed women shown on BET-.00001% of whites get surgery, perms produce curls not an Afro. 90% of black women straighten hair/dye blonde+wear makeup+surgery to narrow nose+blue contacts (Beyonce).Halle Berry is 50% white. Report It



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

That was an awesome answer! And I'm pleasantly surprised that it comes from a caucasian woman. Very well put! Report It



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

how does blacks suppose to look? black women don't have one particular feature we have variety. whites do not own a particular feature because variety belongs to everyone. whites are so stuck on themselves.. scary.. but we blacks know the truth and we know the true beauty of ourselves. Report It



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Because studies have been done finding that we like to choose familiar features in a mate. Basically, we are attracted more to people with features similar to ours.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

cause when their stuff gets so dark it is not hot at all



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

First of all I don't think Tyra is beautiful- her forehead is too big.



Second, I don't think that most men think black women are unattractive- I think it's mostly women who think that. Vogue profits would go down with a black woman on the cover because black women don't buy Vogue and maybe the white women don't think there will be anything interesting in there since there's a black chick on the cover.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

That is not entirly true. I love black women But not the BIG ones. I dont like BIG white or mex girls either. I love the tall sexy black girls I see in mags.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Black is beautiful. Why do Caucasians tan? Why do they put botox in there lips? Why do they get butt implants? WHY WHY WHY. Black is so beautiful.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

You are right. I'm bengali (Brown, but I'm not dark skinned...) and peolpe in my country are obssessed with being lighter skin coulred or having sharper noeses and bigger eyes. It's not just African people who do that. It's every where!



You're also correct when you say that teh beautiful women that most people pick form their countries always look like white people.



MAybe not in skin colour always, but they're usually lighter skinned (See aishwarya RAi!), sharper nose, etc.



It's just the human way and I don't think anyone can do anything about it. If you are conscious of the bias then you can do somethign about it.



It' sjust a sad reality of life. Tall, white men make the most money, why do you think?



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Our cultures way of saying we are not all equal.



You should do research on the magazines editors and "owners" The people behind the magazine. It will answer your question



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Girl,you are so right. It's sad, but very true. It's just the way society is today. In order to be accepted or to "fit in" many black females feel the need to "enhance their appearance with, like you said, the weaves, contacts, and other things to make themselves feel better. I think that a man, black or white will pick a person the looks like Tyra Banks or Halle Berry over someone that looks like for example India Irie or Jill Scott. That's just the way it is. Again, sad but true



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

I don't find that to be totally true. I depends on where your getting your information. There's Iman, who defiantly does not have Caucasian looks. i think most men find black women unattractive, is that the majority of black women, are loud, bossy, demanding etc. etc. i don't think it has anything to do with how the woman looks, if there was a beautiful black woman, and she had a nasty attitude, then she would be on the whole ugly. vice/versa. beauty is all in the attitude.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

This is probably because American society and Western society (which of course is wealthier) is predominantly white. It appears evident that races prefer to associate within their own race - which is true regardless where you look e.g India, China, Africa, Europe. As such the people with most of the money will tend to influence the direction of business and ultimately media images. Maybe if ever China becomes a superpower with the same kind of wealth that Western society has the media images will begin to change and Chinese features will be the preffered ideal. So in the end it is 'all about the benjamins'.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Aren't you being stereotypical by assuming "most men" find black women unattractive??



Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and not what the mass media tells you that it is.



In the Victorian era years, overweight milky-white skinned women were all the rage, that isn't so now. Why do you suppose that is?



On the African continent beauty is seen much differently than in the western world. So as people migrate to a specific locale, they will tend to conform to whatever "seems" acceptable and best. And who determines this??--- the media of course. Just be who you are, enhance the beauty you already have and be happy. Remember, God did not create UGLY. (that is, assumming you believe in the almighty).



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

I believe that men will look at a woman's body before they look at anything else. After that is noted and acceptable, they look at the face. A woman of Afican decent might have a broad nose and large lips which to me, is beautiful. I also believe that asian women's eyes are beautiful...indian women's noses and eyes as well...amazing. I believe what makes a woman beautiful are the traces of ethnicity that can be perceived by the naked eye.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

Again, we are talking about the people in power. Tyra banks is an average looking woman without her makeup and hair. Trust me. It goes back to whites in power dictating what is beautiful; not actually what is. let me feel you in on something sweetpea...black woman are NOT the only ones who wear colored contacts and weaves. Every actress, entertainer %26amp; model (white)at some point wears contacts and hair extentions. Do the research. As far as black women not liking who they are or being a shamed of who they are, that is BS.My avatar happens to be DARKER than my actual skin tone on purpose. I have black, Irish and native american blood. I adore dark skins. Nothing more beautiful than a dark skinned attractive person. Nothing beats it. if it was a matter of being ashamed, I would have chosen the lightest avatar i could find. My hair (natural) is probably silkier than yours! My lips, probably thinner than yours (i wish I had big lips), I wish I had a kadunkadunk, but I don't. None the less, I wouldn't change anything about me and am very proud of the gifts that God gave me.I have been called gorgeous by some, and not by others. Everyone is intitled to their opinion and I don't trip because a car accident could take it away an any minute, but I am happy that my heart is good and my mind is sound. That can't be taken way. My hair is down my back but I will wear a short wig if I feel like it. Does that mean that I am ashamed of my long hair? This is the 21st century. There is no excuse for a woman NOT to be attractive even if she was not born so. That is what weaves , makeup and contacts are for. Change. Do YOU wear makeup? Any at all? Why do you? Is it because you are ashamed of how you look naturally or merely enhancements? Most of the people you see on your TV screen have been enhanced to look beautiful. What's the problem?



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

If its white men your asking about, its prob. because THEY'RE WHITE!



If its Black men you're speaking of, its prob. because they grew up in a white society, dominated by media that caters to white preferences.



It is an observable FACT that people prefer to be around people who look like they do, and have the same culture.



How about the success of Lester Holt as an anchor on MSNBC? He sounds whiter than I am! The predominantly white audience doesn't see his race; the visual is offset by his white midwestern generic american speach pattern and accent. The fact that he sounds like a white accountant makes him intellectually credible to the majority audience. And THAT is what sells commercial air-time.



The same is true with fashion.



Why do most men find black women unattractive unless they have what we deem as stereotypical white features?

I agree with Hermosa's comment. It's a reversal. If African features were not envied then every white woman in America would not be trying to look like us. (lip injections, curling and perming their hair, breast %26amp; butt implants. Even our personal style and culture!!) African American culture and lingo is the most coppied slang and style in this country. I think beauty is not set by the standards of society or the media, although they try to because they control the media, T.V., etc. People are attractive becaue of who they are not how they look. I've met plenny of people, black, white, brown, asian, etc. and what's made them stand out in my eyes is thier personality. Love who you are! I do!!

Free speech? not in here?

i just received my 1st violation for what giving my opinion about black people bitching about being forced to live in the usa i said they have everything in the usa and should be happy how long would a black person last if they went back to africa? without money cars houses FOOD hair weaves and nails hmmm they would beg to come back to the usa also im from the uk and we call them black not african english



Free speech? not in here?

And do not attempt to get justification from YA either. Enough people complain and the YA system sends out the notice, not even checking if the complaints are justified or not. I totally agree with you in the fact that how is it that people complain about living anywhere, especially the USA. If it is that bad for black people in the US, then leave, go back to Africa and see how terrible it really is. In addition, what the black people fail to remember is that it was black people in Africa who started the slave trade. It was already a booming business well before the arrival of white explorers, but that amazingly is forgotten. In addition, those black people who are alive today did not have to suffer through the being captured and sold by their black "brothers" nor shipped across the ocean nor having to be slaves. Hence they appear to be attempting to capitalize on the sorrows of their ancestors. However, since my ancestors were no better than slaves in the UK (which I do not live now) and other countries in Europe, then do I have the right to complain and feel that I have been hard done by? No, I must get on with my life and look to the future and not the past of my great grandparents.



In addition, that whole name thing drives me nuts. There is African American, African Canadian, etc. If Africa means that much to you, then go back and stop being an American. Either you are part of this nation or you are not. However, if they really want to be called that from now on, then they need to start calling other people European American, or English American, or French American. I wonder if they can understand how childish they actually sound by doing that. They are having a temper tantrum and if you say anything they pull the race card out and get your answers banned, etc. Well people, there is more racial discrimination against white people world wide than ever could be against blacks, so welcome to reality. The world is NOT fair and we only can make the world around us as fair as possible and hope that spreads.



Free speech? not in here?

No you are not free to be aggressive.



Free speech? not in here?

You cant have free speech anywhere anymore. Its just not PC. People want an opinion, but if you give them one they don't like then you are offending them. Doesn't matter what color anyone is.



Free speech? not in here?

And you don't find your question a bit... RACIST? So if I was to say that YOU wouldn't make it in America because we don't have enough Tea and Crumpets and maybe the thing about DENTISTS and Brits....



Now, Dear Lady, you would find this a "Violation." Yes?



Free speech? not in here?

You just need to hit someone the wrong way or catch them in a bad mood and that's all it takes. I used a quote from a religious text and someone didn't like the one I picked so I got the bong too. If you're opinionated you may get a couple here and there, don't worry.



Free speech? not in here?

Yes, alot of blacks are better off in the USA than in Africa. However, some didn't have any choice in the matter. better off does not equal happy. Besides, some black people are not treated fairly in this country, that is a fact. of course, some black people blow that out of proportion and blame that instead of themselves as to why their lives are in the toilet, but that is their problem.



Free speech? not in here?

Have you met all the black people in the U.S.A.? Have you spent much time in the large cities of the U.S.A.?



Black people don't have everything. And many people of other races are hurting too.



Please don't form opinions about what it's like here in the U.S. based on movies and television, and I'll try not to do that about life in the U.K.



Peace



Free speech? not in here?

welcome to what is know as "freedom of speech", but what do you know about being black and living in the US? EVERYONE should be happy they don't live in an impoverished country, and white people wear weave all the time, get with the program.



r m how do you know that blacks do the most reporting???? when you report someone does your race pop up????



Free speech? not in here?

You are free to express your opinion. They are free to be offended by it.



I look at violations as someone else's way to express that sense of offense, I but don't get too worried about it. I suspect that yahoo has the process automated, and no living person even looks at the list of violations.



My first violation was for suggesting that the little twerp do his own homework, rather than post it on YA as a question. I protested it, which got me exactly nothing. Now I shrug and move on. I don't go out of my way to offend people, but I don't try to sugarcoat things, either. If someone has a thin skin, I don't worry about it - they'll grow one soon enough, or else will have to live in a permanent state of being offended, I guess.



Free speech? not in here?

I don't feel like you should have gotten a violation for expressing your opinion, but you need to realize that there are white, black native american, oriental, hispanic and others in the USA who are starving or just getting by because of their heritage. Granted, some are just lazy. Others would do anything to have an education, a job.....a life. You don't seem to be wanting for anything. Make a donation to one of the many minority charities. It'll do your heart good. And it will help someone. Or don't you want to help?



Free speech? not in here?

I am tired of hereing people calling people racists for giving THEIR opinion.I find that MOSTLY blacks do the complaining and reporting.



If you don't want an honest answer.... DON't ask.



If you are an answerer and don't like an answer, DON'T read it!!



GO TO ANOTHER QUESTION and don't come back to one that offends you! Don't report it like a sniviling baby, let those who WANT to discuss it that way do so.

How Much is Too Fake?

In today's world of beauty, it is a blessing to have everything to be considered beautiful. So girls (and some boys) go around getting cosmetic surgery, hair weaves, fake nails, colored contacts, and so much more to look appealing. My question is for guys/ lesbians: do you find it attractive for a girl to be fake in appearance. girls who look fake: why do you feel the need to change your natural appearance? and natural girls: what do u think of other girls who do that kinda stuff?



How Much is Too Fake?

Even though i am all natural. I feel like that society puts pressure on people to have what they think is a perfect figure. There is nothing wrong with wanting to improve as long as you remember who you are. Most people who do the whole body make over thing will probably be satisfied anyway.



How Much is Too Fake?

Well I'm all natural and I'm straight but I think seeing girls like that really upsets me. I think they're making all girls look bad. They're creating this idea that girls have to be stupid to be cute and fake to be pretty. Its not true! I'm very smart, one of the head of my class and I have nothing fake. I had acrylic nails once for like 2 weeks but thats about it. THey think they are so amazing and they really arnt. I wish they would stop making gilrs look stupid and bad, and make american girls look bad to other countries. Its like how other contries make fun of us for being "fat" when a lot of pple [me included] are really really skinny! It p**ses me off to see them walking around like they are the hottest thing on earth and not realizeing they are actually the ugliest!!!!



How Much is Too Fake?

I prefer to keep it real, I am all natural...I don't like the fake persona that many people today portray...I want to be known and liked for me!



I wear eye liner and mascara to work and on special occassions lip gloss, lip stick and or eye shadow usually in natural or warm colors.



How Much is Too Fake?

From a Natural Girl:



I personally hate it when others try to transform themselves into something else. Some stuff is okay, but when you get addicted, it's too much. Fake nails could be okay if you don't have other fake stuff. I think that 1 fake thing is plenty. 2 is pushing it, but more than that is over the edge.



How Much is Too Fake?

How I feel about it depends upon their reasons for doing it. Having plastic surgery to please someone else is clearly bad. But if you're doing it for yourself, then why not? Whatever makes you happy.



How Much is Too Fake?

OK I am natural and I think fake nails is fine and hair extensions is fine but cosmetic surgery for like you're nose or lips or something is over done so is colored contacts I mean think about it you are looking at this person who is fake and they don't look like they did as a child or something they look totally different I mean like everything is different and you just wish that person didn't change there selves and could just have a natural glow and natural beauty so I think girls that do all that fake sh!t are weird and need some mental help!! You need to except yourself for who you are!!



How Much is Too Fake?

I have no problem w/ ppl wearing makeup either to enhance their features and still look natural, or using eyemakup to make a statement but not that caked on look.



As for colored contacts, fake nails, hair weaves, cosmetic surgery, I just don't understand it. Most people do this so that they will feel prettier and the way that they judge feeling prettier is when more people compliment you. But, what i don't understand is that even though you may be complimented on say, your nice breasts, since you know that they are fake, you can't take much pride in it and the compliment wouldnt mean as much as if they were your own. the fact that you know that they are fake kind of diminishes your satisfaction in them. at least, this is how i would feel. don't get me wrong, i think that cosmetic surgery is great for ppl who have been damaged by fire, etc. or were born w/ defects but getting breast augmentations, "perfecting" your nose, and all that stuff seems excessive and not very satisffying.



also, say you have hair weave/extentions or colored contacts. if you meet a guy, he's going to have to see what you really look like eventually. besides the fact that he might be disgusted b/c you're fake, what if your eyes were his favorite part of your figure...for him to find out that they're fake might lessen all of his compliements. i know that i would just feel cheated and lied to.



How Much is Too Fake?

I don't believe that a girl who alters herself is 'fake'...



I'd still find a girl who changes the way she looks attractive. Really, personality is what I look for when trying to find attractiveness in someone, anyway..



How Much is Too Fake?

I'm not a guy or lesbian but I do have an opinio about this. I think girls are trying to look too much like each other, even if it might be without knowing it.



Cosmetic surgery (in my opinion) is great for people who have had an accident that made them look different, fire, crashes, or getting a breast reduction. Those are all fine.



What I can't stand is people who get hair extensions, always have to have a manicure (I've only had 1 once, for my mom's wedding) Plus, a bunch of girls, just by looking at them you question what they really look like under all that make up and cover up and hair bleach.



I try to stay natural looking, by using some mascara, eyeliner, and a little lip gloss to enhance what I think my best features are. The problem is girls don't know how to look like themselves and use make up, but they have to become differnt people to feel comfortable in it. And I'm not saying all girls are like that, but a bunch are.

Is hair weaving sucessful and do those weaved hairs grow naturally,?

plz tell me the place or city where weaving is done and wat is the cost incurred



Is hair weaving sucessful and do those weaved hairs grow naturally,?

A really great site to go to is www.regrowth.com - it'll give you all the information you need there.



If you're considering the possibility of other treatments to try and promote hair-growth you can also find detail on all these also - they're not trying to sell you anything - but actually help you navigate through all the snake-oils to get to the things that work.



Look, particularly, for Dutasteride (or Dutagen - a generic variant), Nioxin Shampoo, Arginine, Saw Palmetto and Xandrox (minoxidil derivative) products - he'll also give you detail on where you can purchase these products online. This is the regime I use and it's really worked for me - so I can truly vouch for it.



Andy

Hair weaving ,hair bonding ,hair transplant ,hair implant....wat r d differences in these???

hey i hv gone bald and want to get rid of it by these means...can u plzzzz tell me the approx cost of these procedures????...and which method wud u suggest...i hv a male pattern baldness....plz help me...



Hair weaving ,hair bonding ,hair transplant ,hair implant....wat r d differences in these???

Hair weaving is the process of "tying" other hair to your exsisting hair to create a fuller look. Hair bonding is attaching "other" hair to your own hair with a special glue like chemical which is attached at the very base of the root. Hair implant would be putting real human hair just under the scalp, this is someone elses hair and does not grow, once it falls out that's it (and usually is put in small qty's and I've heard that this procedure has improved it used to look like the hair on a dolls head -but???)Hair transplant is the process of taking "live hair" off of an area on your head that has hair and "transplanting it to an area that has no hair. This process usually is the best and will have permanent results. As to the cost of these procedures it varies.



Hair weaving ,hair bonding ,hair transplant ,hair implant....wat r d differences in these???

Hi the answer by yaya is very accurate, I would also like to add maybe wearing a fullcap or instant weave may help I know hair implants can be expensive. Have you tried using a chemical like wild growth to make your hair grow?



Regards



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Hair weaving ,hair bonding ,hair transplant ,hair implant....wat r d differences in these???

If it is alopecia areata (male pattern baldness) then the hairloss cannot be fully cured in most cases,



but just frozen for some time with the treatments availiable on market today.



1) Hair transplant (FUE technology) creates really natural hairline, no scars, the best way to go if you have enough donor hair and money of



course.



2. Propecia (Finasteride) and Minoxidil are the only ones approved by FDA and proven to work in most men so far.



Generic Propecia (finasteride) is also ok. I use it with same results, and unfortunately same sides(a bit dry feeling in the scalp) as brand



propecia. Have tried lots of herbal crap before it and laser combs, so far the only thing that prevents my hairloss, not much regrowth, but



has stopped my hairloss completely.



I buy from this pharmacy for the last 2 years - http://www.1rx.biz/generic_propecia.html . It is under $1 per pill as I buy the 90 pills.



(89$ for 90)

Help! I've had a perm done by a friend that went wrong! Are hair extentions/weaves an option?

A friend (yes i forgave her - after a while!) permed my hair for me successfully once, but the second time it was a disaster! My hair was over processed and was like straw and since then over a period of time my once very long locks have gradually got shorter and shorter to a layered bob (waaah!) its been nearly a year since the perm and i still have slight curls at the ends but i'm getting really sad coz i miss my lovely long hair. Does anyone know whether english hair is suitable for weaves? My hair is fine but theres lots of it and i wonder how extentions etc cover your hair. Any suggestions welcome (within reason) otherwise crew cut it is lol



Help! I've had a perm done by a friend that went wrong! Are hair extentions/weaves an option?

... check http://www.brownskin.net/hairweaves.html



Help! I've had a perm done by a friend that went wrong! Are hair extentions/weaves an option?

extinsons are tacky!

I has relaxed hair, and now my hair breaks.I want to get my hair natural again, what do i do?

I want my to be natural and long before.How do i get the natural back.I do weaves and trim it everytime i change the weaves..im get a lot of undergrowth, which means the natural is coming.



I has relaxed hair, and now my hair breaks.I want to get my hair natural again, what do i do?

You are going to have to cut off all the permed hair to go all natural. It's the only way. Even if you just stop getting relaxers the permed part will break off eventually.



I has relaxed hair, and now my hair breaks.I want to get my hair natural again, what do i do?

You can do the BC-big chop, or slowly cut it as it grow. But keep it moisturized and oil in that order. The weaves and braids are great ways to grow your hair, but take care of it. Learn to do protein treatment and clarify at least once a month. Deep condition.



I has relaxed hair, and now my hair breaks.I want to get my hair natural again, what do i do?

the same thing happened to me a few yearz back.



as long as the weave isn't being glued in, the weave iz cool.



get it washed n still flat iron it, don't use a hot comb b/c you still have perm. everytime you get new growth, you need to cut that same amount off the endz b/c that'z the part of your hair with perm.



you could do the same thing except get french braidz instead of the wash n press thing. that way, you don't have to do a lot to keep it straight. and you could add hair to the braidz. i did that for a whole year and it helpz so much but you still have to take really good care of it



regardless tho, you have to get the permed hair cut off whether it'z little by little or all at once or all of your hair will break off.



I has relaxed hair, and now my hair breaks.I want to get my hair natural again, what do i do?

you let it grow out !! wait 3 to 6 months



I has relaxed hair, and now my hair breaks.I want to get my hair natural again, what do i do?

If you have chemically processed your hair with a chemical such a relaxer then you have changed the internal structure of your hair. This is permenant and you cannot then revert back to natural type hair without cutting your hair and letting it grow again. If you are wearing weves and trimming your hair everytime you change it then you may be able to cut away at the relaxed hair whilst the new natural hair grows.. This is what I did in order to make the transition from permed hair back to natural easier. However I did find that my hair grew quicker once I decided to just cut all the permed hair off instead of doing it step by step. In order for your hair to grow succesfully you must moisture your hair religiously. This is wat black women do not understand. In order for your ends not to break it must not be allowed to dry out. Its like spaghetti. Before spaghetti has been cooked its straight and hard. If you try to bend it it will snap.This is what happens to dry hair when you comb it or style it. Once spaghetti absorbs water, or moisture it then becomes more elastic and bends withouut snapping. Like our hair it will not break if moistured. Our hair also breaks from the tips, in order for your hair to grow you must keep the tips of your hair on our head whilst the new growth grows. You do this by moisturising. That is how you add lenth. You must also 'deep' condition you hair every week. Do not moisture you hair with oils or grease. this only coats the hair it does not penetrate it. If you put grease on around your finger and put it in water then your hand won't get wet, its waterproof, same with hair. If you coat it with grease, you don't allow moisture to get in. Make sure your get a good moisturiser, a cream which can get inside the hair. Never grease our scalp either it clogs up your pores and is not needed. Your hair will lubricate itself. Keep it clean.

 
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